Family Reunion #1: Word Prints in the Book of Mormon, Motherhood, Dirt Slides, John L. Hilton III, and Tim Hawkins

We got to go to the first family reunion of the summer last Monday. Valor got back from his trip to Missouri on Sunday with his cousin and good friend, all in one piece. I am so grateful! It takes a lot of faith for a mother to let her son go on a road trip with other 18 year olds and no parents.  We picked him up on the way in Provo at his workplace so I got to see where he works, in south Provo at the old Novell campus. We then drove up Hobble Creek Canyon to connect with the clan of my mother-in-law’s brother, the John Levi Hilton family. John L. Hilton has passed away, but he left a tremendous legacy of testimony of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ and a beautiful family. He studied the Book of Mormon and showed, with his unique analysis of “word print” studies, that “it is statistically indefensible to propose Joseph Smith or Oliver Cowdery or Solomon Spaulding as the author of the 30,000 words from the Book of Mormon manuscript texts attributed to Nephi1 and Alma.”

Here’s a video by him about wordprints.

 

Now he has a grandson and namesake, John L. Hilton III, who teaches and writes about the gospel, especially for youth. See http://johnhiltoniii.com. He has some free stuff on there, check the free downloads tab and the ppoint, for powerpoints, tab. Here’s a video by him and his wife on motherhood in the Old Testament. He was not at the reunion because he is in China doing something exciting.

 

 

Here’s a link to a free PDF of a book by him, a guide to boy-girl relationships for LDS youth.

Here’s a link to an excerpt from his book about evidences for the Book of Mormon.

My little kids found this super fun dirt slide on the side of a hill tucked behind trees. They got so dirty! They were having so much fun I didn’t want to tear them away, so we stayed until it was dark and were the last ones to leave. That’s why the picture at the top of this post is so dark. 

We had lots of fun on the way home as Valor told us about his trip to Missouri. Honor, my 14 year old, serenaded us with Tim Hawkins songs, including this one, “Life on a Diet.” Honor has always had a knack for remembering lyrics, tunes and having a great sense of comedy. He can entertain us for hours.

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I Finally Found a Movie Classic for Independence Day!

Every year I feel like watching a movie in the afternoon of Independence Day during the heat of the day, before the day cools off for an evening family barbecue. But it never happens, because of the following obstacles. The movie/musical 1776 tells the story of Independence Day, but it has swearing and I don’t like the way it portrays some of the Founding Fathers. A More Perfect Union doesn’t hold my younger children’s attention, and although it involves some of the Founding Fathers, it tells the story of what happened over a decade later, with the signing of the Constitution, in 1787, not 1776.

I like John Adams, but it has a few objectionable parts. Then there’s Johnny Tremain, but my kids have watched it a lot so it’s lost its magic and it’s not about a real person.

So I am happy to announce that I finally found a movie! It’s about the Revolutionary War, it’s clean, and it’s about a real person. I don’t know why I hadn’t heard of it before. It’s called Swamp Fox. It’s actually not a movie, but a TV series produced by Walt Disney. I heard about it from Zion Vision http://zionvision.com . Swamp Fox was the nickname of Francis Marion, who Walt Disney claims was the biggest hero of the Revolutionary War, next to George Washington. My love of learning and core phase children watched it last Sunday afternoon and thoroughly enjoyed it. They like singing the theme song, “Swamp Fox, Swamp Fox, tail on his hat. Nobody knows where the swamp fox’s at.”

I actually read about him in one of Richard Maybury’s Uncle Eric books, the one on World War I. Maybury said that the Swamp Fox represents the spirit of guerrilla warfare and independent thinking. I haven’t watched the whole series and studied a biography about him, so I don’t know how true the series is to his real life. He is the character that the Mel Gibson movie, The Patriot, is  partly based on. I guess that movie could be an Independence Day movie classic as well, but I have not seen it. I can’t vouch for its family-friendliness. I think it’s R-rated.

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What’s the Best Cell Phone Plan?

The good news is that my adrenals have recovered from the stressful day at Seven Peaks last week when I had to coordinate four things at once, including a five hour trip for my son to get to southern Utah by 8 AM the next day. Visions of me having to drive him there during the night filled my head. All of this was going on in the stressful environment of high heat, water everywhere but not much to drink due to fascist water park policies, and tracking down a son, Mr. Towhead Boy, who took off his life vest. This was after I ran into my aunt who told me a story about a little girl who almost drowned the previous week in the wave pool because she didn’t have a life vest.

The bad news is that my cell phone has not revived from its brief immersion in water  when I took a break from planning to actually relax and have fun with my little girl on the Lazy River.

The good news is that I get to get a new phone! So….what do you all recommend? I’ve been using a non smartphone. Shall I stick with T-mobile and get a non smartphone that is ugly?The phone I had was really cute but it’s not available any more. Right now we are paying $90 a month for 2 phones, unlimited talk and text. Changing to a smartphone means adding $20 to $40 a more for storing data. Is there a better plan out there for 2 smartphones? Is there a way to get a used iPhone and really cheap service somewhere? Do I really want a smartphone? Would it make me even more tuned in to electronic distractions instead of my children? I really love the convenience of being able to call or text people wherever I go. I like having a little camera and mp3 player too wrapped up with my phone, but maybe I don’t want to pay for smartphone capabilities. What do you all recommend?

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How to Cure Tooth Cavities

I have to credit Diane Hopkins for opening my mind to an alternative to drill, fill, and bill when she wrote an article for her newsletter over a decade ago about healing cavities. Two of my kids have dental appointments on Monday. If I hear the news that they have cavities, this video is our answer! Ramiel Nagel will teach you how to have strong teeth, based on the work of Dr. Weston A. Price.

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Come to the LDS Homeschool Conference August 10-11

My friends Amy Hansen and Tresta Neil are putting on an LDS Homeschool Conference Aug 10-11 in American Fork Utah. I am so excited! Here’s a message from Tresta:

As a young homeschool mother my faith in myself, my abilities and in my Savior were greatly increased by my friend and mentor LuJean Livingston.  Each month a few of us would sit at her feet and listen as she unfolded the mystery of how to teach our children at home.  She would quote the prophets, read from the scriptures, unveil a beautiful new piece of art, sing hymns and tell stories.  She brought in guests who taught us about music, art and math.  She had mothers share their homeschool experiences in literature and language, history and geography.  LuJean could, almost magically, take one word and add life, understanding and beauty to it.  I looked forward to each month, each new nugget of knowledge and understanding; I longed for the spirit I felt there.  My understanding and faith grew tremendously during those years.  I gained the confidence in my ability to teach my children and gained a true education for myself along the way.  
Recently I have come to realization of what a gift that experience was for me.  It wasn’t about the mechanics of teaching each subject, it was the words she used to help me feel the spirit who then taught me through the feelings within my heart.  Through her words my faith was increased and I was able to bring home and teach my family with the spirit to help them create more faith through learning.
Joseph Smith taught that the mind of Man is the organ of creation, and words, he said, are what set faith in motion.
Thoughts and words unleash faith’s tremendous power.
“What are we to understand by a man’s working by faith?  We answer — we understand that when a man works by faith he works by mental exertion instead of physical force.  It is by words, instead of exerting his physical powers, with which every being works when he works by faith.”  (Lectures on Faith 7, emphasis added)
At the LDS Homeschool Conference we want to create an atmosphere much like my own experience.   A place where our faith will increase through the words of the presenters and the thoughts of the participants.   A place where not only mechanics and lesson plans are taught but also where the spirit is felt, where the Holy Ghost bring into your heart what you need for your family.  A place where we may “Seek Learning by Faith” (D&C 88:118.)  
We invite you to join us for the LDS Homeschool Conference August 10th and 11th 2012 at the American Heritage School in American Fork Utah.  There will be a youth panel Friday night where you’ll see what other homeschool youth are doing and their variety of experiences.    Saturday will be filled with adult and youth options for classes, workshops and reenactments.  There will be scripture discussions, vendors, and a family ball.  There will even be a pot luck meal option during lunch to provide more opportunities to connect with other families and learn from each other.  
The theme this year is “Seek Learning by Faith” and it is our hope that through the teachings at this conference your faith in yourself and in your abilities will greatly increase.  We hope that you will seek the opportunities that will bring you closer to the desires of your heart and to Jesus Christ, our Savior.  
For further information and registration go to www.LDSHomeschoolConference.com
With increasing light and learning,
Tresta K. Neil

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Teenagers vs. Youth, Free Ebook for You on the Difference

Here I am with my dh, my firstborn and my youngest.

My oldest child is having the time of his life right now, with his buddies, halfway across the country, in Missouri. It is so strange to be old enough to have a child who can announce that he is going on a road trip 800 miles away and then does it without any planning or shopping or driving on my part. He is out there with his friend from college and his cousin. They are all 18. Here’s my son with his cousin.

They went to see my son’s roommate from GWC near St. Louis and then to see a friend girl (not girlfriend) whose family performs in Branson. She plays the violin there for her family’s show. http://www.hughes-brothers.com/hughes-kids/instrumentalists.html So today I think they are at Silver Dollar City and tonight they will see the Hughes Brothers Show in Branson. My son , the friend girl, and his friend from college all tried out for the same scholarship last year, the Andau Character Prize. I guess tough competition forges strong friendships sometimes. As now they feel compelled to meet in the summer in humid Missouri. They were all counselors the past two weeks at Youth for Freedom and now they are continuing the fun. I am jealous! I want to be there too! (At Branson with the youth, but not in the humidity!)

I had to take this pic with my phone because I had lost my camera last summer at Youth for Freedom (long story, but it’s back now!) so the picture’s not that great, but it shows the three finalists for the Andau last year nervously waiting the announcement of the winner.

So I check Facebook every day to see what’s happening on the trip. I was happy to see that they went to church in Colorado, even though they had a 12 hour drive from Denver to St. Louis on Sunday. The biggest thing that allays my fears about three 18 year old boys traveling together in a car with cell phones is that these young men are youth more than they are teenagers. I know both their moms, my sister-in-law of course, and my other friend, and that these boys have been raised to be responsible young men. Basically, they’ve been raised to be youth and not teenagers.

Being a teenager is a modern American invention, whereas youth is what young people used to be called. Youth take on responsibilities at a young age. Think of John Adams or Joan of Arc, when they were youth. They were not about playing all day, flirting, demanding fun from the latest technology. (I wonder what the latest technology was for them?) Then there’s Joseph Smith. Where would we be if he just wanted to play and not ask the serious questions in life and seek answers. These youth were all about going about preparing for or doing their missions in life. You’ve probably all seen the article Here- the Myth of the Teenager, all about the difference.

Let’s all read it and encourage our children and their friends to be youth, not teenagers. Society will thank you for it!

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Who wants to Discuss Probably the Most Important Book Outside the Scriptures?

My friend Michelle in Kansas City and I are discussing this book over the phone. It doesn’t look terribly exciting but the contents are so powerful! It is probably the most important book you will read outside the scriptures. That’s because, if you are like me you have dreams and goals. Your children have dreams and goals. You believe in Jesus Christ and in His power to heal and save you. But, let’s face it, unless you understand the power of the adversary and avoid his sneaky tactics, you will not win at getting your dreams and goals. You can get your dreams and goals and mentor your children to get theirs if you know how to fight the evil one.

This book is the companion book to the Eternal Warriors course that I am taking from my friend Aneladee Milne. Aneladee used to work with LEMI (Leadership Education Mentoring Insitute) but now she is with Sons of Helaman, founded by Maurice Harker. See http://sonsofhelaman.orgThis is an organization devoted to helping LDS young men overcome porn addictions.

The Eternal Warriors class is an an addiction prevention program. I am learning so much from reading the unofficial companion books for the course. Maurice Harker is Aneladee’s boss and he recommends the book Putting on the Armor of God by Steven A. Cramer. Like I said before, It is probably the most important book you could read outside of the scriptures. For the rest of this blog post I will call it the “green book,” because it has a forest green cover. You can read excerpts of it HERE.

Another companion book is the resource that Maurice wrote, himself, found here http://sonsofhelaman.org/?p=interactiveBook. It is written specifically for parents who have sons who struggle with pornography but anyone can apply it to understanding the brain chemistry behind any self-betrayal/addiction. I also got to listen to a recording Maurice did at a fireside recently and that added even more enlightening pieces to the riddle of overcoming self-betrayal.

So here is what I have learned from these three sources:

  • it is imperative to learn the methods that satan uses to bring me down. As the book states, quoting Elder Melvin J. Ballard, “It is well to know the forces and the powers, that are arrayed against us, that we may close our ranks and fortify ourselves” 
  • here’s another gem of a quote from the book: “A study of satan’s methods can alert us to his seductions.” from Elder Ezra Taft Benson
  • from the author, Steven A. Cramer, (a pen name) “Even though satan has a well-planned agenda, many people think that if they ignore the reality of the devil, and avoid thinking of him, they will be protected from his influence. Precisely the opposite is true. It is difficult, if not possible, to conquer an enemy we do not recognize, understand, or respect. The less we believe in satan, and the cunning devices he uses, the more he will have power over us.”
  • satan is a very sneaky spirit who never rests. he does not play fair. he is constantly attacking us, day and night. As the book says, “We must realize with soberness that we are engaged in a war that will determine our eternal destinies, a war that deserves every caution and awareness we can muster. It is unfortunate that so many people are so preoccupied with the daily affairs and pleasures of this temporal world that they go through life as if it were a playground instead of the battleground it really is.”
  • the biggest thing to learn about satan is that he attacks us by speaking to us, using our own voice! This is something that we’ve all experienced but rarely acknowledged. Maurice likens this to the Vietnam War, when sometimes the enemy would broadcast a voice over a loudspeaker. The Vietnamese trained the person to speak with a Texan drawl, so that the Americans would think that the speaker was one of them, an American, when really, he was the enemy. 
  • I have been paying attention a lot more to when my thoughts, that sound as my own voice in my head, are negative, accusatory, whining, feeling like a victim, complaining, dwelling on other people’s faults, and reminding me of my past mistakes. I remember, oh yeah, that’s not really me talking to me, it’s satan, the enemy, using my voice! I then tell myself it’s just satan talk and tell him to scram.
  • satan can have no power over us once we learn his methods. As Elder James E. Faust said, “We need not become paralyzed with fear of satan’s power. he can have no power over us unless we permit it.”
  • we can permit this power by our lack of searching out his methods of attack and educating ourselves and our children of how he operates. Elder N. Eldon Tanner said, “They (children) must be taught that satan is real and that he will use all agencies at his disposal to tempt them to do wrong, to lead them astray, to make them captives, and keep them from the supreme happiness and exaltation they would otherwise enjoy.”
  • Maurice likens satan to a deviant prankster. Maurice describes this scenario. Say a young man is on the beach. He sees a tide pool with a sign by it that says, “No swimming allowed.” So he follows the rules because he is a reasonable, obedient young man. Maurice then says suppose the young man lies down on his towel to rest on the beach. After a while he wakes up and sees that he has a syringe of heroine stuck into his arm. He didn’t do it, but all the evidence is gone as to who did, and since nobody is around, it seems like the young man did it to himself. But it was really satan. He is so sneaky that sometimes self-destructive awful things, that are beyond reason, that seem like we did it to ourselves, actually come from this deviant prankster. But in a sense we do do it to ourselves because of omitting to prepare to fight this deviant prankster, learning how he works as a subtle serpent.
  • This deviant prankster has learned to attack our brains and cause a chemical spill inside the brain. He doesn’t know how to read our minds, for “There is none else save God that knowest thy thoughts and the intents of thy heart.” (D&C 6:16.) However, satan has been around for eons and knows what images or thoughts will cause chemical reactions on our bodies that will cause pain, and weaken us so that we will be vulnerable to self-destructive behavior that provides instant pleasure with a flood of chemicals in the body that are as addictive as heroine.
  • satan chiefly operates by attacking us with a satanic spin. This is a cycle in our minds. It starts with a “flash.” That is thought or image from satan to get us to do something bad. It can be so subtle that we don’t even know it. Maurice, in his PDF book, tells the story of how decades ago, the Coca-cola company found that it could insert one image of a Coke in one frame of a movie. The image flashed by so quickly that people did not consciously know they had seen it. But sales of Coke skyrocketed because the subconscious mind had seen it. This is how satan works. After the flash comes the chemical spill. This is a small spill that causes a slight uncomfortable shift in our bodies. He wants to increase the feelings of boredom, anxiety, and depression, to weaken us. There is more to the satanic spin that I won’t share here because I am still trying to understand it all. Basically the spin happens in less than a second, and it leaves you feeling stoned because of the chemicals in your mind. I can see how it happens to me, with my self-destructive behaviors. Unless you are Mother Teresa, you have them too, so I highly recommend these resources to you. 
  • Part of the course is to learn when Satan releases these chemical spills. Then the course teaches you what to do about it. It teaches you how to release stronger chemicals in your brain to combat the chemical spill. This is the “mother bear” chemicals in women that are released if the mom’s baby is threatened and the warrior chemistry in young men if the young man’s mother, wife, or girlfriend was attacked.

My friend and I are discussing the book, Putting on the Armor of God. If you would like to join us over the phone for a teleconference call, we would love that! Since Michelle is taking a Sons of Helaman course to be a mentor and I am taking the Eternal Warriors course to help me and my family with our self-betrayal tendencies, we are willing to share what we are learning, which complements the content of the book. We’ve hardly discussed the first six chapters.

If you would like to join us, we will be discussing the rest of the book in two parts on Saturday morning July 21st and then Saturday August 11th, at 6 AM Mountain Time. Sorry it’s so early but it feels good to get up early and start your day this way!  Comment below if interested.

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An Actress Promoting the U.S. Constitution?

A while ago I heard about Janine Turner, an actress from Northern Exposure, a TV series from my college years. Did you know that she homeschools? She is teaching her daughter Juliette about the Constitution and has founded an organization called Constituting America. Juliette wrote the above book for youth to get them excited about the Founding Fathers’ values.

 

 

See http://constitutingamerica.org. The web site says this:

“Constituting America’s Mission is to utilize new and innovative means in order to reach, educate and inform America’s citizens and youth about the importance of the U.S. Constitution and the foundation it sets forth regarding our freedoms and rights.”

 

You can watch the videos from the organization here http://youtube.com/user/ConstitutingAmerica#p/u/5/sgIE1ACrJ18

 

They are promoting the values that the United States was founded on. In 2010, they had a 90 day forum on the Federalist Papers. In 2011, they did a 90 day forum on the Constitution.  You can get those in PDFs at the site. Now in 2012 they are having a forum to analyze the 27 amendments to the Constitution.

 

They also have lots of educational resources, podcasts, and essays. You can work with them to set up a Patriot Club in your area and also encourage youth to participate in the 2012 Essay Contest. The deadline is July 4, 2012. See here for rules http://constitutingamerica.org/downloads.php.

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A Case for Freedomship and Enterprenerualship Education by Andrew Pudewa

I heard about this article from my dear friend Becky Williams. I got to meet Andrew Pudewa years ago. He is a delightful educator. He writes curriculum to teach writing for homeschoolers and sells it through his company, http://excellenceinwriting.com

(This article first appeared in The Old Schoolhouse Magazine’s 2011 Business Directory.

It is copied and reprinted below with permission.)
†Contains distinctly Christian content

The following words are by Andrew Pudewa:

Entrepreneurship and freedom were intricately woven through the original fabric of American culture. Ninety percent of those early Americans were owners…of farms, shops, trading vessels, small businesses. Freedom and faith marked these entrepreneurs whose success rested squarely on their hard work and integrity and the quality of their product. Today, more than 90 per cent of Americans are employees. The ideal of ownership has been lost. And although many people do wonderful, respectable, important and meaningful jobs, the mentality of an employee is vastly different from that of an entrepreneur.

What has happened to our entrepreneurial spirit? Where have “owners” gone? Oliver DeMille, in his teaching on “leadership education”, places the responsibility for this change on the educational system itself. With a brief history of this system, DeMille describes how schools gradually changed from educating individual talents to becoming a method of social engineering and standardization.

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During the Colonial period most children learned their basic skills—reading, writing, and arithmetic—at home with their parents or mentors. Colleges, such as Harvard, Princeton, and Yale, were established as schools of divinity, designed to educate Christian leaders for a Christian nation. The country boasted high levels of literacy and produced people like Jefferson who were able to self-educate. The book, A Thomas Jefferson Education, describes the “mentorship” style of this period.

During the 1800s, the one room schoolhouse was common. As many as forty children between the ages of six and sixteen learned in an environment that nurtured independence, cooperation, shared learning, and leadership. Older students helped younger students and gained teaching experience and leadership opportunities while the younger students had role models to follow.

The Industrial Revolution of the mid and late 1800s created a great need for factory workers who could do mindless jobs for long hours, and this corresponded with the establishment of city schools, where children were segregated by grade or age. Children became less independent and more teacher-dependent. They had fewer opportunities to demonstrate leadership and, without their older role models, tended to adopt similar vocabulary and behavior as their peers, whether good or bad. This modern educational system began to produce its desired goal: a predictable, controllable, obedient workforce not possible in the earlier American climate.

New methods of instruction based on German psychology aimed at creating this type of worker were implemented in the classroom. Initially parents resisted, but by the early 1900s, most memory or understanding of the previous approach had faded, leaving only conveyor belt education where students enter in kindergarten or first grade and move through a standardizing system. By twelfth grade they are ready to enter the workforce or military. But we know that when children are age-segregated, any group will still exhibit two, three, or even four grade levels of aptitude in core subjects. To insure success for all, standards must be lowered, then raised again when they fall too low. Grade level integrity fails and children move to the next grade…ready or not.

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In his book, The Underground History of American Education, New York State Teacher of the Year John Taylor Gatto describes how David Farragut, the first admiral of the U.S. Navy, took command of his first ship at age12. Thomas Edison couldn’t read and was kicked out of school, but by age 14 was printing a newspaper and making more money than the teacher who removed him. Albert Einstein, who also did poorly in school, stated: “It is nothing short of a miracle that the modern methods of instruction have not yet entirely strangled the holy curiosity of inquiry.” History proves that all children want real, honest-to-God responsibility—to be relevant, to be needed, to be able to make a real contribution and a meaningful difference, but increasingly, students find schools to be uninteresting and irrelevant. Even Bill Gates asserts that the modern system of education is not meeting the needs of the modern economy, and that America’s high schools are quickly becoming obsolete, in that they are not teaching our youth what they need to know for the continuation of a free and prosperous nation. We no longer live in an industrial economy, and the factory model school won’t meet the needs of our ever-changing society.

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Oliver DeMille, in The Coming Aristocracy: Education and the Future of Freedom, suggests that entrepreneurial style education is beneficial for the individual, and for the nation. Without skilled, character-driven, competent people in the society, the whole society becomes susceptible to governance by the few, “the coming aristocracy, “ and an increasingly greater gap between those who “know” and those used as pawns of the whole system. The conveyer belt system of education was useful for the Industrial age, but fails in the information age. Employers in every industry and field complain about college graduates today, arguing that “they can’t speak properly, can’t write properly, and don’t think. They’re worthless until we train them.” What we need now—for the good of the country—is a nation of “owners”.

A “freedomship” and entrepreneurial education is therefore based on the idea of self-education, mentorship, and initiative. Though the word “Freedomship” is not found in the dictionary, we are trying to coin this term, which refers self-directed leaders in homes, families, businesses and life. People who lead themselves well become responsible, independent, intelligent, well-educated citizens in a free country. “Entrepreneurship” is learning about business, economy and activity, and an entrepreneur is “a person who organizes and manages any enterprise, taking on the initiative and the risk.” The word comes from the French word meaning “one who undertakes an endeavor.”

According to Peter Drucker, one of the foremost thinkers in the area of business success and entrepreneurship today, “Innovation is the specific instrument of entrepreneurship. It is the act that endows resources with a new capacity to create wealth.” And having the means to create wealth is, in essence, the key element of political and economic freedom.

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My own entrepreneurial drive began at age 16 with selling war games out of the trunk of my car, and since then I have always been self-employed. When my two oldest children were 12 and 10, I started looking for resources that would help children learn how to start a business. I found a resource called Business Kids, which came in a game-style box and provided booklets, checklists, and planning forms to help children learn how to get their business started. That product was short lived, but the idea never left me. When our company, Institute for Excellence in Writing, started publishing materials, I continued thinking about a curriculum that would integrate writing with practical tips for kids on how to plan and start a business. A few years ago, I came across someone who had created a sequence of lessons and activities that could be done with one child or a group of children. We have since licensed and published this excellent course under the title Lemonade to Leadership.

Again, entrepreneurial success rests squarely on the hard work, integrity, and quality of product. When looking to start a business, ask yourself, “What service or product do you have the skills or resources to provide?” Other questions also help: “What are some of the needs in the neighborhood? What are some problems? What are some things people are too busy to do? What could you do that someone else couldn’t do? Will it work? Is it safe? Legal? Is it profitable? Can I get customers? Do I have access to what I need? Is it going to require startup funds? Do I have time? Do I have the experience?” These questions, along with forms and simple writing activities found in the eight-lesson series help to crystallize the thinking of the future entrepreneur and lay the foundation for setting goals, creating a name, doing market research, getting official, and starting to sell. Aimed at middle-school children, the course is simple, yet solid enough to help parents with businesses that they might like to start on the side.

LTL Lemonade Stand

We’ve only been publishing the program for about a year, and have had several reports back from kids who’ve done this. I recently met an 11-year old boy who had gone through the lessons. He saw that restaurants provide crayons to children as they waited, and knew that children like crayons shaped into different things, like fish, cars, and rocket ships. His idea was to melt down crayons into molds, and then sell them to restaurants. So he convinced local schools and day cares to “re-cycle” their useless little crayon stubs, thus providing him with free materials. He melted the crayons into molds, then packaged, and began marketing them. (I bought a package of four little fishy crayons from him for a buck. How could I not?) There is now a national chain of restaurants that wants to purchase his molded crayons. He is an articulate and enthusiastic 11-year-old and meeting him would convince anyone that there’s a bright future for this country.

I went through the process with my son and helped him start up a little business. Because he is profoundly dyslexic, reading and writing have always been hard, but he loves swords, so selling swords became his business. Together we figured out costs, selling price, profit margin, record keeping, marketing, etc. He would sell at conventions with a table near mine. I watched as he drew crowds. The boys liked the swords, the girls followed the boys, and the moms came to find their children. He developed this elaborate little impromptu speech explaining that when you buy a sword, you buy a bit of history, and that buying a sword was an educational purchase. I was very impressed.

However, his dyslexia caused him problems. One of the nicer-looking swords he was selling cost him $16, so we decided that he should sell them for $32. That seemed fair. Well, we took them to our next show, where he sold every last one of these swords. When we counted up his money, we found he was considerably short. Then I found a check for $23. He had sold the swords at the inverted price! Rather than get discouraged, he simply changed the price at future shows to $33, so that either way he was safe. For every problem there is a solution if you think about it. It was a hundred-dollar lesson, but well worth it.

Mentoring is essential to leadership education, because few children can succeed without guidance. This is where parents are key. Starting a family or child-run business, whether it succeeds, breaks even or loses a little money, is never a waste of time or resources. Every family should have a business; it is an educational opportunity—one that allows children to grow up making a meaningful contribution to the family. In all my business ventures, my children have assisted me; my older children helped me run a preschool. When I got the writing business started, they put the books together, collated discs, and hauled boxes at conventions. They learned to give some of my talks. I needed them and they knew it, which was a great thing for them to know growing up. The educational and social growth opportunities that a home business has afforded my children are irreplaceable.

Because there is significant correlation between activities learned at a young age and developing lifetime aptitudes, providing meaningful, challenging work for children is a lifetime gift. Another reason to encourage entrepreneurial actives at a young age is that fact that children are fearless, and this make learning easier—even when they make mistakes. It is the job of the mentor to stress that failures are just part of the lessons. What lessons are learned? My son learned that invisible things have costs. Dyslexia had a cost… along with his time, the booth, the product. He also learned that although he is not good at everything, he is good at many things, despite his dyslexia. He has already decided to hire other kid to do what he can’t or doesn’t want to do. He has learned the value of teamwork and using his strengths.

I believe we are in a time where we will either rescue Western civilization, or we will watch it become something else. We can save America, or watch it fall. We’ve had a period of safety and grace, but we are at critical mass in our economy, politics, education, and international influence. To regain what once made America great, we must raise children who know the truth and can communicate that truth powerfully, children who have evangelical and entrepreneurial energy that will preserve goodness, truth, and beauty. It is because I have this sense of urgency that I’m working hard to create things that support and encourage this mission. It requires courage and strength to be a parent in this century. Though the world opposes your attempts to nurture Christ-like qualities in your children’s minds and souls, it is possible to raise up children of wisdom, virtue, and good character.

Education cannot solve the world’s problems. Neither can money. Both are tools. Bill McCartney of Promise Keepers maintains that, as with first century Christianity, it all begins in the marketplace where the disciples of Jesus daily rubbed shoulders with the lost. Christian entrepreneurship is essential for bringing truth and goodness and beauty into the public arena. I commend you in this direction. The world will hate you for it, but if you persevere, you and your children can experience true and lasting success.

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Book Party for the Gift of Giving Life

 

I had lots of fun at the LDS Holistic Living Conference. I hope to get a blog post up in the next week or two about the highlights. I learned so much!  All five authors of the new book for childbearing LDS moms, The Gift of Giving Life, were there. It was their first time meeting in person!  Heather Farrell, Robyn Allgod, Lani Axman, Felice Austin, and Sheridan Ripley all attended the conference and sold their book. (I got a picture of the historic moment but my camera and computer are not cooperating. I will have to post it later after my tech people, teenage children, get back from their trips.) The five authors met through the cybersphere and then collaborated on the book. I am so impressed by it! If you haven’t already bought your copy, go here http://thegiftofgivinglife.com/ or come to the party tonight to buy it!

 

Yes, the authors are having a book launch party tonight to celebrate the publication. Here are the details:

 

Tuesday June 26

6 to 9 PM

The Belvedere Grand Party Room

29 S State St.

Salt Lake City, UT

 

It’s free and will have food and connection! Get the oxytocin flowing! You are welcome to bring children and babies. The authors will do a short presentation and have Q and A afterwards. So come take a break!

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